5 Principles for Personal Growth

As Christians seeking personal growth, we are called upon to set an example of what is good and pure in this world, so that people of other faiths will notice that there is something unique and different about the followers of Jesus Christ.

“You are the light for the whole world…. your light must shine before people, so that they will see the good things you do and praise your Father in heaven” (Mt 5: 14 – 16).

While, just being good Christians does qualify us to be “the light for the whole world”, it certainly does not provide us with a blanket permit for our light to “shine before people” nor does it exhibit personal growth.

The intensity of our Christian light’s brightness will be directly proportional to the degree of our personal growth and spiritual growth.

Remember, even in the darkest night, no one notices a dim bulb that flickers. Now, a neon glow sign, shines brightly and is something that attracts immediate attention, even at dawn or dusk and demonstrates personal growth.

There are five spiritual principles needed for personal growth are:

1) our spiritual closeness to Jesus. (personal growth principle)

The moon has no light of its own, but only reflects the light it receives from the sun. Similarly, we merely reflects the spiritual light that we receive from the Lord. The degree of intensity of that light depends on our spiritual proximity to Jesus.

Mt 4: 25 tells us: “Large crowds followed him from Galilee and the Ten Towns, from Jerusalem, Judea, and the land on the other side of the Jordan.” Yet, Jesus did not preach the beautiful Sermon on the Mount to these crowds.

He taught the secrets to true happiness only to those who were close to him, his disciples, for Mt 5: 1 – 2 goes on to tell us: “Jesus saw the crowds and went up a hill, where he sat down. His disciples gathered round him, and he began to teach them.”

2) our brokenness, be it material, emotional, or even spiritual. (personal growth principle)

Mark 14: 3 tell the story of a woman who came in with an alabaster jar full of a very expensive perfume made of pure nard, broke the jar and poured the perfume on Jesus’ head. The perfume’s rich fragrance was revealed only when the jar was broken.

Our brokenness opens the door to the Lord and is an essential ingredient needed for our personal spiritual growth. It’s only when we are broken that the Lord can mould us anew, to emit Christian fragrance around us.

3) our willingness to forsake our comforts (personal growth principle)

Too many good things make us spiritually lazy, and the only way to personal spiritual growth is to be willing to give up these comforts. Luke 9: 57 tells us of a man who told Jesus that he would follow him wherever he went, but when Jesus said to him, “Foxes have holes, and birds have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lie down and rest”, the man was found wanting. Although he was ready to follow Jesus anywhere, he was not willing to forsake his comforts!

4) Our ability to get our priorities right – Jesus should come first at all times. (personal growth principle)

In Luke 9: 59, we read that Jesus called a man to follow him, but that man wanted to go back and bury his father first, and the Lord rebuked him, saying, “Let the dead bury their own dead. You go and proclaim the Kingdom of God.” There is no personal spiritual growth when we put earthly duties above spiritual calling.

5) Our ability to sever our earthly emotional attachments. (personal growth principle)

Another man said, “I will follow you, sir, but first let me go and say goodbye to my family.” Jesus said to him, “Anyone who starts to plough and then keeps looking back is no use to the Kingdom of God” (Luke 9: 61).

It is clear, therefore, that we can attain the spiritual zenith of our personal growth by giving first place in our hearts to the Lord, and he will respond by making us a worthy beacon of Christian light. Christ told us to seek first the Kingdom of Heaven and everything else would be added to us.

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Personal Development 1

Personal Development is a many faceted jewel. This means different things to different people. Because of the multifaceted nature of this area of success training, this topic has been broken down into several sub-topics. You’ll understand this when you read the remainder of information on this page.

When we think of this area (Personal development) of success training several things come to mind. We must take a close look, an inventory, of all of the facets that make up our unique personality. By looking at ourselves, we discover the areas in our lives that need the most immediate attention. (Refer to Success Principles)

Let me interject here that this is neither a high browed attempt to psychoanalyze you nor an attempt to ask you to psychoanalyze yourself. This is simply a real world look, a deep introspective of what makes us who we are and how to use what we have to realize success. In order to get to where we want to be we need to look closely and ask ourselves several questions.

1.) Who am I? You might think this to be a crazy question but it’s not. When asked this question, your first impulse is to give your name. Your name is not who you are. Your occupation is not who you are. Consider this. You are unique. You were created with a unique blend.

Take a moment and think about what distinguishes you from every other human being?

2.) Where am I? How silly! I’m right here. or I’m in New York or I’m in France? For us to really understand the implications of this question, we need to step out of our normal mundane mindset and think in terms of spiritual location not physical location.

3.) Where do I want to be? The answer to this is what we’re looking for. This is the prize.(Refer to Practical Application)

All of these questions will be explored to a greater depth in following Personal Development articles. In order to get the most out of this website, take each section and complete all of the articles in that area. the answers that you are seeking are there. If your in a hurry and you need the answer right now, sorry. Success doesn’t work that way. Please use these links to learn more.

The Journey Continues

As I watch the progression of my mother’s mental state sink deeper into the fog of that strange world caused by Alzheimer’s disease, I find myself teetering on the brink of despair. My nerves are frazzled by frustration filled days and sleepless night. My emotions are covered with the stickiness of stress and my body is racked with pain and tired beyond belief.

I see no improvement, only that heart wrenching depression. My heart feels pressed and my back aches from lifting her from the floor when she gets off balanced and slides down from her chair. My disposition has begun to resemble that of an ogre, snapping at people and grumbling.

It is these times that I hate. I know that it is only going to get worse. I hear echoes of friends and family members who constantly urge me to put her in a nursing home. They reason that I will live a better life without all of the stress. So often I feel like giving into these temptations, letting go of my promise to her to never put her there. It is these times that simply grate on my already raw nerves. I see nothing in the near future but more pain, more confusion and more frustration. I feel like yelling, “God, why are you letting this happen to her? Why are you letting this happen to me?”

When these thoughts mottle my brain, God speaks to me gently and reminds me of the bigger picture. He reminds me that I am letting the small picture of my immediate predicament cloud the bigger picture. He reminds me that Job was in a similar circumstance, racked with pain and disappointment. He gently nudges me to consider the situation from a higher perspective.

He reminds me of the joy that He has given me by answering my prayers to leave her with me for a little while longer. He causes me to remember all of the times when she, my mother, comforted me when I was upset or angry or just plain frustrated. He even goes so far as to give my mother moments of clarity when she thanks me for taking care of her and being so good to her.

When I lift my head above my own troubles, I can see clearly that God is watching. I remember that He has promised to always be with me and to never forsake me. I can see that He commanded me to honor my mother and father. I remember that He told me that He would never put on me more than I could handle.

When I look at the bigger picture, God shows me that it is the enemy who is causing me to focus on my pain. It is the enemy who sends friends and relatives to discourage me. It is the enemy who has planned my failure for me and is waiting for me to accept it.

I have the victory. I have the blessings of God even in my darkest hour. God grants me an abiding peace, one that passes all understanding. I thank Him for giving me the opportunity to turn these fiery trials into a victory for me, my mother and for Him.

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